Friday, August 31, 2012

Simplifying my Life: Decluttering

One of the main projects I’ve embarked on is decluttering our home.  I’m shocked at the amount of stuff we have accumulated.  We had a good-sized garage sale this spring, and as I was pricing the items, it made me sick to my stomach to see how much stuff we had accumulated that we weren’t even using.  Since then, I’ve continued to declutter.  I have another 6 boxes and 5 bags of stuff to get rid of.  I could probably justify another (small) garage sale this fall, but I don’t have the energy for it so I’ll be donating it all.  I hope that my donations can go to help someone less fortunate.  As I’m writing this, I’m scanning my book shelf and home office for additional items I don’t need.  I overhead Matt telling some friends last weekend that I’ve been decluttering, and that he’s worried he’s only got about six months left.  I assured him that I don’t plan on doing this parenting gig alone!

It feels great to declutter.  It’s also a great organization tool.  Previously I thought that organization was all about rearranging my stuff and buying more storage containers.  Turns out that some of my problem spaces that I could never keep organized were simply because they were too full of stuff!  Our linen closet stays much cleaner now that we have a reasonable amount of items in it.  I donated three full bags of linens to a local animal shelter.  Who needs three sets of full-sized sheets when you don’t have a full-sized bed?!  I’ve been challenging myself about how much of one item we really need.  How many sets of sheets does one person really need?  Probably two per bed max.  Towels?  Again, probably two person max and a couple extra for overnight guests.  I think it’s just easier to do laundry more often than to store so many of one item.

A popular decluttering method is to take everything out of a space.  Take all of your kitchen items and spread them out on the living room floor or kitchen table.  Then group like items together, assess what you have and what you don’t use or can live without (purge, purge, purge), then put everything back in the original space.  This sounds like a great approach to me, but I don’t have that kind of time.  I get small windows to declutter and organize when my babies are napping.  So I puruse cabinets and closets pulling out a few items at a time.  This is probably why my first purge that populated the spring garage sale was not 100% effective.  I’m now going through round #2 and challenging myself again about what I really need to keep.  While it’s hard to let go of my stuff, it is sure nice not to have kitchen drawers that I can’t open because they are too full or to have to dig in the way back of a cabinet to locate the item I need.
When I’m decluttering I ask myself:

·        How often and how recently have I used this item?  If I can’t remember the last time I used it, it probably doesn’t need a spot in my home.

·        Do I have another item that can accomplish this task?  I got one of those handy choppers (the kind you press down on over and over to chop) as a wedding gift.  I rarely used it because I either used my mini-food processor or a knife that could accomplish the same task. 

·        Do I find this item beautiful, and if so, do I have it displayed?  If it’s in stored somewhere because I don’t have room to display it…it’s on the chopping block.
Sometimes my stuff tears at my heart strings even though I know that I don’t use or need a particular item.  I have to remind myself why I declutter:

·         To eliminate unnecessary things that take up space in my home that I have to organize, dust, and clean.

·         Because I shutter to think about what our home would look like in 20 years if we don’t.

·         To own fewer things so that I appreciate more what I do have.

·         To focus on what truly matters in life.

·         To teach my children that life is about relationships and caring for people and not about accumulating things.

·         To be a good steward of my money and guard my home against future clutter.

·         To monitor what I bring into my home and make sure that it has a use and a place.

·         Because organized, uncluttered spaces ease my mind and relieve stress.
What truly amazes me about the amount of stuff we’ve gotten rid of during 2012 is that we really don’t notice anything is missing.  If you came to my house today, you wouldn’t look around and think my house looks empty or incomplete.  If you cooked in my kitchen, you wouldn’t be lacking for the proper kitchen tools.  But somehow in the 13 years since I’ve moved out of my parents house, my things had multipled many times over.  The more I declutter the more I realize, less really can be more.

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